Pauls's Epistle to the
Ephesians
CHAPTER XXI.
THE
FILIAL RELATIONDUTY OF CHILDEEN TO PARENTS.
"Children, obey
your parents in the Lord: for this is right. Honour thy father and mother
(which is the first commandment with promise), that it may be well with thee,
and thou mayest live long on the earth."- EPH. 5:1-3. (Dt. v. 16; Col.
3:20.)
THE duty which children owe to their parents is expressed
in two words -"obey" and "honour." I use them as convertible terms. To obey is
really to "listen to" to hear submissively and deferentially; to respect their
utterances; to "honour" them. The duty is enforced by three considerations. It
is right. It is commanded. And it has connected with the commandment a
promise.
I. It is right. In the
nature of things, it is just and proper. The appeal is made to reason here; to
our natural sense of justice and propriety. Apart from all other arguments or
motives on its side, the thing itself is right.
So clearly and
self-evidently is it right, that the Lord appeals to it in pleading with his
people, and remonstrating against their inexcusable undutifulness and
unfaithfulness. "A son honoureth his father, and a servant his master: if then
I be a father, where is mine honour, and if I be a master, where is my
fear?"
"A son honoureth his father." It is natural, it is fitting, it is
just and right, that he should. It is his duty; and his reasonable duty; so
much so, that if he violate or wilfully neglect it, he is counted a monster
rather than a man. The ties which bind you to your parents are so numerous, so
strong, so tender, that even when God breaks them, it is a wound grievous to be
borne; and nothing but the most wild or wanton hardness of heart can be
imagined as an explanation of your wilfully breaking them yourselves. To be a
grief to your father and a bitterness to her that bare you; to requite with
ingratitude those who fondly cared for your infant helplessness and supplied
your infant wants; to disappoint the bright hopes that cheered their spirits in
many an hour of anxious thought and midnight watching; to set at naught an
authority never exercised but for your good, and resent salutary chastisement
never inflicted but with deepest pain and pity; to forget their counsels of
wisdom, their lessons of love, their earnest warnings and persuasive pleadings;
to be deaf to the voice of a father's fervent prayer, and the eloquence of a
mother's silent tear; to despise the Holy Book they have put into your hands,
showing you how over it to bend the knee; to grieve them by your waywardness,
or by your sins pierce their souls with many sorrows; - such conduct is so
manifestly opposed even to the natural sense and feeling of mankind, and their
instinctive apprehension of what is right, that all cry shame on one so
abandoned; and leave him, without sympathy, to the remorse with which his
conscience, however seared, and his heart, however hardened, must soon
be.
When the Lord then, as the father of his people, makes this plea his
own; surely his remonstrance may well strike home upon the best feelings of
your nature, and awaken one of its truest and tenderest chords. "A son
honoureth his father. If I be your father, where is my honour?" Ye fathers in
Israel, would you be content to receive such honour from your children as you
yourselves are rendering to your God? And, ye children, would you count it
enough to show to your parents the kind and measure of regard that you show to
your God - to give to your father on earth as little of your heart as your
conscience testifies that you are giving to your Father in
heaven?
II. But, secondly, the duty
is commanded. The argument is here to be reversed. It is not from man to God,
but from God to man. For though, in one view, the duty of honouring your
earthly parents may be made the test of a duty infinitely higher, in a far more
important view the order must be changed. Even in regard to the former duty,
your natural estimate is apt to fall far short of the truth. Such as it is, it
may be used to convince you of your utter and inexcusable failure in the other
duty of rendering to God the honour and obedience you owe to him. But when that
sad fact has been realised by your conscience, quickened by the Holy Spirit;
and when, led by the Spirit, you have been moved and enabled to repent of your
deep estrangement from God, and to seek and find reconciliation, to him in his
Son; when, pardoned through that Son's blood, and accepted in him, the Beloved,
you become sons of God in him, and receive the Spirit of his Son in you,
crying, Abba, Father; when thus you really honour God as your Father in heaven;
then, returning to your earthly parents - and that sense of your obligation to
them which may have, in the first instance, set you upon thinking of your duty
to God - you return with a new sense of the deep holiness and exceeding breadth
of your obligation to honour your father and your mother in the Lord; not only
because this is right;"but because it is right as being a commandment. It is a
duty, and a commanded duty. "Honour thy father and thy mother, as the Lord thy
God hath commanded thee."
This view of its being not merely a duty, but
a commanded duty, materially affects both the motive and the extent of the
obligation to honour your father and your mother in the Lord.
1. The motive must be holy. It is a pure and holy
respect to the will of God. In that view, "this is right." On that footing
alone should the parent base his parental authority; on the footing, I mean, of
the rightful authority of God. For in his hands it is a delegated authority. He
claims obedience "in the Lord." And therefore he claims it as "right;" as a
right thing, because the Lord has made it matter of commandment. He may try to
rule his child otherwise: by force, by flattery, or by fraud. Reason also may
be brought in to show the propriety and expediency of submission. And the
affections may be engaged on the same side. In infancy and early childhood, he
may have to begin by asserting, as best he can, his own will as supreme, and
enforcing it as from himself. But the sooner he claims obedience as obedience
"in the Lord," and as on that account "right," the better for his hope of
wielding his authority effectually for good. And the sooner a child begins to
obey his parents in the Lord, because it is right, as being commanded, the
better for his standing well with them, and getting good from them. There may
be other reasons and other motives for his doing so. He may find it to be his
interest; or a sense of decency, and the habit of submission, may constrain
him; or admiration and gratitude may move him. Nay, he may think it a finer
thing to obey his parents from the spontaneous promptings of his own warm
heart, than to obey them by compulsion and on command; to obey them in the
Lord; because it is right in the Lord's sight. But let him not so deceive
himself. He does not obey his parents at all, unless it is in the Lord, and
because it is right, that he obeys them.
For it is the Lord who, by
subduing you to himself, renders you, in himself, submissive to your parents,
as he was himself. He makes your submission to them part and parcel of your
submission to him. It comes to be submission of the same sort; obedience
divested of all the bitterness and irksomeness of merely legal enforcement;
obedience on the higher platform on which free and sovereign grace places you;
obedience partaking of that cordiality, that free and joyous sense of free and
honourable obligation, that high and tender love that must have breathed
through all his own personal obedience to Mary and Joseph, when he was subject
to them at Nazareth; and still more through all his personal and official
obedience to his Father in heaven: "I must be about my Father's business"
"Father, thy will be done" "Father, not as I will, but as thou willest;" "My
meat is to do my Father's will, and finish his work;" "The cup which my Father
giveth me, shall I not drink it?"
2. The extent also as well as the motive of the duty is affected by
the footing on which it is thus placed, as being not only right, but commanded.
Of Jesus himself, in his home-relation to Mary and Joseph, it is said without
qualification or reserve "he was subject to them." He thus kept the commandment
of God. And the commandment which he thus kept is very broad. It is strongly
and unequivocally asserted and enforced as such all through the Old Testament
Scriptures. And in the nature of the case it must be so. If indeed your filial
duty rested on any other foundation, it might admit of modifying or explanatory
qualifications. If it rested on a mere sense of natural fitness or propriety,
that might seem to point in a quite opposite direction. Is it right or fitting
for a wise son to defer to an imbecile or unworthy parent ? If it rested on
gratitude or natural affection, how easily might the parental claim be viewed
as forfeited, to the extent at least of some large abatement from its full
force and integrity?
How strong, in point of fact, is the tendency, as
you who have been children grow up to maturity, to deal thus with your filial
obligations! You do not intend to dishonour your parents; nor do you in reality
behave towards them with anything like studied disrespect or disobedience. But
alas, you fail in too many daily instances, and you secretly palliate your
failure. You omit some attention that would have pleased your father, or you
yield to some levity that vexes him. He does not appear to notice any neglect.
No great harm is done. Or you are provoked by his treatment of you. You think
yourself harshly used in some slight particular. Your temper is ruffled; your
looks are sullen. But you are excusable; he rather than you is to be blamed.
You begin to cast off your old feelings of reverence and dependence, and to
presume upon your superior enlightenment and enlargement of mind; so as not
merely to urge your own views against his, but to do so with unseemly arrogance
and presumption. And for all that you have a good deal to plead.
For
indeed, according to any principle of mere natural reason or natural affection,
it is not easy, in such circumstances, to bring home to you, on the ground of
such instances as these, any very poignant sense of guilt. For you readily
persuade yourselves that if you do not honour your father and your mother now
with that unquestioning and unreflecting and all-confiding homage with which
once you reverenced them, it is they and not you who are changed; or at least
they are changed to you and you to them. Neither they nor you may be
blameworthy. The change is accidental or inevitable. Eeason and affection can
scarcely either prevent it or reprove it. Ah! It is only when you come to know
your parents, not after the flesh, but in the Lord; when thus you come to
honour them, not from any variable considerations of natural feeling, but from
a regard to the Lord; it is then only that you honour them consistently,
constantly, "in all things." For then, in all your treatment of them, you
consider yourselves as dealing first and primarily with the Lord; not with
them, but with him; and with them only in him. What a holy fervour should this
thought inspire into all your filial piety! How should it rebuke all
eye-service; all irritability; all resentment of what may seem vexatious
interference! How should it make you recognise the obligation in all its
breadth - Children, obey your parents "in all things." From all this it
follows, first, that the duty which children owe to their parents is altogether
independent of the character and qualifications of the parents, and of the
opinion which the children may have of them.
Are your parents unfit for
their high and holy charge, or unworthy of it? Have they failed to secure your
confidence and esteem? Have you outgrown your first instinct of blind
affection? Have you reached a higher spiritual position than they seem to
occupy? You are more alive than once you were to the real dignity of the
parental relation. You see more clearly what a Christian parent might be, and
ought to be. You feel what kind of Christian parent would now content you. If
you had your own choice, you would not select the father or the mother you now
have. It is a sad discovery. To be forced, on principles strange in their view,
to judge unfavourably your earliest and dearest friends, to see defects and
faults in those whose actions once seemed to be all exemplary, whose every word
was an oracle; to detect folly or falsehood in a father once regarded as
infallible, or a mother deemed to be without a stain; - ah, it is a case in
which one might be tempted to say that ignorance is bliss! A believing child
may almost shrink from recognising his own faith, if it compels him thus to
recognise his parents' unbelief!
But look, thou son or daughter, called
in an ungodly or worldly household to be the Lord's - look not to your parents
as deserving honour, but to the Lord as commanding honour to be given to them.
You never in that view can lose your reverence and respect for any father or
mother, however far from God themselves, so long as you feel that it is not
they, but that God to whom you have been brought nigh, who really claims and
calls forth this tribute of regard. You may sometimes be at a loss to know how
your honouring your parents should be manifested; how it may be harmonised with
higher obligations. You may have to take steps displeasing to them, and stand
out against what they would prefer. Still you will feel that all the more, for
that very reason, all possible deference is due to them "in the Lord." On his
account you will honour them; "bearing all things; believing all things; hoping
all things; enduring all things" if by any means, for your sake, they may be
brought themselves to honour him, for whose sake, as they must see, you so
dutifully honour them.
Are your parents, on the other hand, all that
your hearts could wish? Are they like-minded with you, "partakers of the
blessing"? To honour them is surely an easy duty. But be sure that you honour
and obey them as your parents in the Lord. It is not enough that you honour
them as all believers honour one another. Your parents, though they are your
fellow Christians, are still your parents. Nay, they must be felt to be so all
the more on that very account. Do not then at any time, or in any instance,
forget to reverence them as parents, because it is your privilege to love them
as brethren in the Lord. Use no unseemly familiarity. Take no undue liberties.
Assume no air or attitude of independence. But while you live with them in the
confidence and communion of brotherly kindness, as being of the same household
of faith, obey them in the Lord; honour them as your father and mother, because
the Lord your God has commanded you.
Hence again, secondly, the extent
of the filial obligation is to be urged. Thus, as children obeying your
parents, you are to obey them "in all things." Yes, "in all things." There is
no exception or reservation; save only that implied in the overbearing and
all-dominating principle ; " we must obey God rather than man."
There
are a few cases under the milder and more tolerant assertion of parental
authority as against the conscientious convictions of children that has now
taken the place of a sterner domestic rule - still there are cases with
reference to worldly entanglements, in which you must be true to God, in spite
of apparent disloyalty or disaffection to your father or mother. I say
apparent. For it is only apparent. Even these hard questions do not exempt you
from the duty of honouring your parents in the very matters in which you are
compelled to decline their jurisdiction; and honouring them all the more
because of that compulsion. You will meekly receive their censure; you will
explain to them affectionately and tenderly the views on which you act; you
will yield to them a double homage in all other things; you will pray for them
always. You will remember the example of the Lord Jesus, who did indeed in one
instance set aside his mother's interference in a matter that pertained to his
Father's kingdom; whose first miracle, however, was at that very time wrought
in compliance with his mother's hint; whose all but latest breath on the cross
was spent in commending her to the disciple whom he loved.
The views
which Paul suggests of parental claim and filial duty may seem to impart to the
relation too awful a character. Who may venture, on these terms, to call
himself a pious son? Even according to natural sense and feeling, it is a
bitter pang to recall years of intercourse with a father or mother, long since,
it may be, withdrawn from your embrace! "Who can stand the knell of that deep
sigh which seems to whisper in the child's dreaming startled ear a parent's
buried wounds? They were silent long. But now they have a voice and utterance,
reaching the inmost soul! "What would you not give for one brief hour to have
them all explained, to give a fresh pledge of love such as you never knew you
felt till now? And how is all this yearning aggravated if grace has come in to
concur with nature in giving your parents a right over you! How must the
recollection of them, as passed into rest and glory, cut you to the heart, as
you deeply feel your unworthy treatment of them when they were with you here
below! What were they to you? What were you to them? Is it, however, through
God's good providence, otherwise with you? Are your parents still spared? Does
the old man your father yet live? Ah, it may be well now to be anticipating the
time of separation, and to be asking yourselves how your conduct towards him
will appear when he is taken away from you, or you are taken away from him.
Look forward to the hour when he and you must part. The parting will be in
itself hard enough to bear. Let it not be made harder by anything now in your
intercourse with one another, on which you will then have to cast back a
self-accusing eye. Let all your prayers, and services, and offices of filial
love and duty, be such as may soothe the spirits of your parents while they
live, and, by God's blessing, minister comfort to you when they have gone to
their long home : the comfortable hope of being again reunited, where
separation and sorrow and sin are known no more.
III. There is yet a third consideration by which
this duty is enforced. It has connected with it a promise -" Honour thy father
and mother (which is the first commandment with promise), that it may be well
with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth." The mention of this being
the "first commandment with promise," might naturally suggest the idea of there
being other subsequent commandments with promise in the decalogue. But there
are none. We are thrown back therefore on the preceding portion of that code.
There has been no commandment with promise, however, before this one. There
have been simply reasons annexed, or grounds of obligation stated.
Thus, the first commandment is based on the absolute sovereignty of Jehovah
and his special relation to his redeemed, as asserted in what is called the
preface to the whole ten; -which, however, I take to be part and parcel of the
first. The second, again, rests on the character of God; on his holy jealousy
for the honour of his name. The third is enforced by an appeal to his principle
of j'udgment being after a higher standard than that of man. While the fourth
brings forward the gracious example of the Sabbatic rest of God, to be a
defence at once and a warrant for the Sabbath as made for man. But the fifth is
the first command,ment with promise.
To ascertain the full import of
this significant fact, let the meaning and position of that commandment be
noted.
1. As regards its meaning, I cannot but think that it is too widely
stretched in our Shorter Catechism, where it is made to embrace all the
relations of social life. I entirely concur in the principles of interpretation
laid down in our Larger Catechism (99) as applicable to the ten commandments;
and especially in the sixth of these principles ; " that under one sin or duty,
all of the same kind are forbidden or commanded." We must apply the prohibition
or precept to all cases that are analogous to the case formerly specified,
-that fairly fall under the same category. Thus the order " honour thy father
and thy mother," may be held to cover all relations of inferior to superior;
all relations implying obligation under authority; such as that of a subject to
his sovereign ; or a pupil to his guardian ; or even a servant to his master.
But it is an unwarrantable extension of the principle to make the commandment
embrace the relation of equal to equal; or that of superior to inferior.
2. The mistake probably arose out of a wrong position being assigned to the
fifth commandment, in the division of the decalogue. It was held to stand at
the head of the second Table, and to have in itself, accordingly, in germ or
embryo, all the duties which men owe to one another. But is that its right
position ? I scarcely think so. For if, as is commonly understood, the division
of the decalogue into two parts rests on its having its summary in the two
great commandments, the assigning of its place to the fifth commandment is a
matter of some difficulty.
There have indeed been many principles and
methods proposed and practised in this dichotomy; this cutting of the law in
twain, to suit the two divinely-written tables, holograph of Jehovah himself.
But none can stand comparison, in point of fitness, with the one which rests on
the twofold law of love. Is it clear, however, as is generally assumed, that
this division gives four commandments to the first Table, and six to the second
? Does the fifth commandment fall under the rule of equal and reciprocal love 1
Is it not rather allied to that which reigns in the first of the two great
requirements of love ? Does it not partake of its character and breathe its
spirit 1 Is it not a sort of extension of the law of love, as applicable to God
in heaven, to those who are in a sense his representatives and deputies on
earth; clothing human parents with something like the majesty of him who alone
is to be supremely loved.
3. If this be so, then possibly a closer
analogy of resemblance, in point of structure, than is sometimes thought of,
may be traced between the two tables of the decalogue. In both, alike we have
four commandments, quite homogeneous in their character; forming a complete
code of duty as regards the matter in hand; and then a fifth, supplemental, as
it were, to the previous four, in the way of interpreting or applying them
spiritually and practically.
Thus, take in this view the second table,
treating of our duty to man ; to man considered as our neighbour ; entitled to
be treated by us as we would think it right that we should ourselves be treated
by him. In four of the commandments (6, 7, 8, 9) we have provision made for his
life, his purity or perfection, his property, his reputation or good name. "We
are to see to it that, so far as we are concerned, in all our intercourse, with
him, he is regarded (1) simply as a living man; (2) as a living man, not
marred, mutilated, maimed, corrupted, but complete, in his true, unsullied,
uninvaded manhood; (3) as entitled to what he wins or gets of the means of
livelihood as his own; and (4) as entitled to claim true recognition of himself
as he really is at the mouth of all his fellows. I may not (1) take his life
away ; nor (2) snatch from it its native purity and beauty; nor (3) intercept
the well-earned or justly-gifted supply for its sustenance ; nor (4) brand it
with any stain of calumny and ill-report. These four precepts seem to exhaust
the list of what we are forbidden to do, in this second table. But now comes in
a fifth (the 10th); not enacting an additional prohibition, but imparting new
life to all the preceding four. For it comprehends them all; killing,
corrupting, stealing, lying ; all these ways of injuring our neighbour; in his
house, his wife, his servant, his cattle; in anything that is his. And by the
use of the term " covet," it lifts the whole up from the region of the outer
life to the inner region of thought and feeling; from what a man does, as
regards his brother, to what in his inmost heart he thinks, and wishes, and
desires.
Take now the first table of the law, or the first four
commandments usually regarded as contained in it. What do they assert?
1.
Jehovah lives: to have other gods before him is to destroy his life
2. He
is pure spirit: to worship him by idols is to carnalise his nature.
3. He
has a name or character among his creatures : to profane it is to rob him of
his property. 4. He witnesses of himself in his Sabbath of rest from work: to
work on the Sabbath is to bear false witness of him. To own him as the one
living and true God : to worship him as a spirit, in spirit and in truth : to
give him what he has a right to claim, a sacred recognition of his name : to
bear true witness for him and with him by resting on the Sabbath as he rested;
these are the requirements of the first four commandments.
And now,
what of the fifth ? Does it usher in the commandments that come under the head
of Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself ? Is that all that it enjoins 1
Does it not rather come in as a corollary from the first four? Is it not an
extension, and earthly application, of the heavenly and divine, the first and
great commandment, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God 1 And in that view, as a
supplement or appendix to the first table, does it not harmonise with the tenth
precept, as the summing up and spiritualising of the second ? For one thing, to
honour is equivalent to not coveting; as not to covet implies honouring. The
one is the positive way of putting it; the other is the negative. And as in the
tenth commandment, the negative, Do not covet, lifts the whole of our duty to
man out of the region of the seen and palpable into the region of the unseen
and the spiritual; so, in the fifth, the positive, Thou shalt honour, brings
the whole of our duty to God down from the region of the remote and the
heavenly to the sphere of our common life. Nor, in this view, would I object to
the widest extension of the fifth commandment, so as to embrace all men
universally ; provided only it is kept to its own proper meaning of honouring,
respecting, reverencing. For thus, through the command to bring somewhat of the
homage we owe to God into the obedience we owe to our parents, we reach, by a
thoroughly legitimate inference, a farther application of the precept to our
neighbours generally. And we come to see that in measure, and in proportion to
the positions which they occupy, first our parents, and then all connected with
us by any ties, are entitled to claim at our hands a love of honour and
submission partaking of the nature of the love which we are bound to render to
God.
Thus the two commandments, the tenth and the fifth, suitably crown
their respective tables in the divinely-written decalogue; and fit into one
another so as to make of them one whole. The one, the tenth, raises earthly
relations upwards to the sphere of what is spiritual, and therefore heavenly.
The other, the fifth, brings the heavenly to bear upon the earthly.
4.
It is its positive form which gives it that singular preeminence. For it is the
first commandment that is, or indeed could be, positive. And there is no other
like it, in that respect, afterwards. " Honour," is the word; not " Thou shalt
not;" not even, as in the fourth commandment, " Thou shalt not" -coming in
after "Remember:" the negative defining the positive ; but, pure and simple, it
is the command " Honour." Where could this purely and simply positive precept
have place except where we find it ? -turning all the prohibitive commandments,
as regards God, into the one positive or direct form in which they can be
realised on earth; the form of a code, which, though necessarily at first, and
indeed all throughout, saying, " Thou shalt not," yet ultimately, through its
taking the shape of " Thou shalt not covet," conies really to be identical with
" Thou shalt love or honour."
5. Is it not thus, through its being the
first commandment of precept, that it is the first commandment with promise. A
promise cannot well be annexed to a merely negative commandment. The formula, "
Thou shalt not," is that of threatening rather than that of promising. The Lord
must begin with that formula. He must assert his self-existence, his holiness,
his faithfulness and truth; under the sanction, not of a promise, but of a
threat. But, may I say, he longs for the opportunity of making the whole matter
turn on a different arrangement ? -he longs to be a promiser ? And he finds
that he can be so first in the fifth commandment. There, therefore, for the
first time, he can bring in the element of a gracious reward. He can do so,
even as when he closed his parable long afterwards with a promise grounded on
the principle : " Inasmuch as ye did it unto the least of my brethren, ye did
it unto me." Honour thy father, with loving honour; for my sake, and as thou
lovest me ! "
6. The nature of the promise may confirm and explain
these views ; " That thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God
giveth thee ;" " That thy days may be prolonged, and that it may be well with
thee, in the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee ; " or as here, " That it
may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth." It is "a
promise of long life and prosperity," as our catechism puts it, "to all such as
keep this commandment." Prosperity ! Of what sort ? Outward prosperity 1 Yes ;
perhaps it way be outward prosperity, with the reservation; " so far as it
shall serve for God's glory and their own good." But it is better explained,
both in the Old Testament and in the New. In the Old Testament, we have the
Lord's assurance to the man who sets his love upon him, " With long life will I
satisfy him, and show him my salvation." In the New Testament, we have the
"Nunc dimittis" of aged Simeon, satisfied with length of days; "Lord, now
lettest thou thy servant depart in peace, for mine eyes have seen thy
salvation." That is the prosperity; " to see the salvation of the Lord." And
that also is the length of days. To have seen the salvation of the Lord is to
be satisfied with long life, or length of days. These days may be few according
to the reckoning of time, or they may be many. But, be they few or many, the
promise of long life is fulfilled when mine eyes have seen thy salvation. I am
satisfied, 0 Lord. I am satisfied with length of days. Now, in the very morning
of life, I can say, " Lord, now lettest thou thy servant depart in peace,
according to thy word."
Surely such a promise, so interpreted by the
word of God himself, befits the precept to which it is annexed, in its widest
and most comprehensive acceptation. There is a blessed connection and harmony
between them. Who that ' sets his love on God, honouring him with loving
honour, and with like honour in the Lord honouring his father and mother, and
all with whom through them he is united and of one blood, would care for any
other sort of prosperity, -any other sort of length of days than this!
Ye who set your hearts on long life and prosperity of a different sort,
consider how impossible it is, in the very nature of things as well as by the
word of God, that the promise can be fulfilled to you ! You may live long, and
it may be well with you in a sense. You may be reaching the measure of the
threescore or fourscore years allotted to the earthly life of man ; and all
along their prosperous course fortune may have smiled upon you. You may have
heaped up riches, and fared sumptuously every day. And it may have seemed even
as if, by some special providence, you were exempted from the ills to which
flesh is heir. But are you satisfied with long life? Can you truly sing the
"Nunc dimittis" ? Are you ready to depart in peace ?
See, on the other
hand, yonder meek, pale face, -that emaciated form, -limbs it may be, racked
with pain, -a wan and weary longing for rest ever and anon stealing over the
cold and clammy brow ! It is but a child, of the age perhaps of Jesus when he
first went into the temple on earth, a child waiting to be led by Jesus into a
better house above. He began, with the earliest opening of his mind and heart,
to honour his father and his mother. Through their teaching, he learned to
honour them with a loving honour, in the Lord; to honour his parents as Jesus
honoured his. Early has he got his reward. Graciously, gloriously has the
promise been fulfilled. The Lord, even Jesus, has showed him his salvation. And
that bright radiant smile, as he falls asleep, speaks only of satisfaction like
old Simeon's as the Lord lets him depart in peace.
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